Trevor and Jamie Lee Bloxham are a husband and wife duo who were born and raised in North Florida. The Bloxhams are high school sweethearts who have lived a lot of life in their 14 years of marriage. From an early adulthood military career to current law enforcement with four children born along the way — their family has experienced and overcame many challenges. God has been faithful through it all and allowed them to serve and lead in multiple ministries spanning all age groups. They have four children, teens to toddlers, where they live a simple life balancing all that God has gifted them. The Bloxhams are just average people who have devoted their lives to an extraordinary God. Their heart is to see marriages and families thrive and live their lives to the fullest, honoring the Lord and positively impacting everyone around them — the way God intended.

A word from the coaches:

“A purified, righteous life that brings honor to God is the goal; our marriages play a primary role in that. Refining Marriage was born from the concept that God refines us by holding us to the fire at times. Nothing reveals what you need to work on personally quite like your marriage and parenthood.

The primary Bible verse regarding the "refiner's fire" is Malachi 3:2-3, which describes the Messiah as a purifier who sits to refine silver and gold, burning away impurities. This metaphor illustrates God's process of cleaning, testing, and sanctifying His people, transforming them to be pure and righteous.

Marriage is a gift from God and a tool that God has used to shape and mold who we are as individuals, in Christ. Had we not of been “held to the fire” in different seasons, we wouldn’t have the marriage we have today. We would love the opportunity to metaphorically fan the flames in a controlled burn and see how God refines you and your marriage.”

— Trevor and Jamie Lee